Most people know that when it comes to weddings, bigger is not always better.
Some people dream of having a large church wedding, with a huge, flowing wedding dress, a band, and over three hundred guests in attendance. Of course, some people want something a bit smaller and for a select group of guests. This can make choosing the perfect spot for an intimate wedding ceremony as, simply put, you don’t want empty seats or to pay money for space that won’t be used.
So, to help you plan for a more intimate wedding, here are some simple-to-follow tips. Enjoy!
The Venue
The venue will play a big part in your wedding, and, as you know, many venues that are designed for weddings are on the larger side. Intimate wedding locations are somewhat harder to come by, but you can look at a small chapel over a large church, or even host the entire ceremony and reception in a hired garden. This will keep everything on the smaller side, and while it is not the object for many couples, it will also keep the price of your wedding and reception low.
The Guest List
Can you imagine an event with over three hundred guests without hammering this home? Far from small and far from relaxing, especially if you and your partner don’t want to meet with your father’s second cousin, twice removed!
Look at your wedding guest list and try to keep it as small as possible. Focus on close family and friends who will not clash with each other. Few things will spoil a wedding more than guests arguing, which, with a larger crowd, is more likely.
Personalise
One benefit of having less to pay on venues and catering is that you will be able to spend more on the personalization of your wedding. So, you and your partner will be able to infuse the ceremony and the reception with your personal touches. You can even opt to write your vows and, with less costs, you could even put the extra money towards a wedding photographer, who will match your style of photography.
Activities
If you are getting married in a small chapel, with a crowd of ten people (including you and your partner), instead of going to a reception afterward, why not book a spot at your favorite restaurant? This will keep things casual and allow you to enjoy a meal with your close friends and family without relying on caterers. Or, if you plan to elope after the wedding, you and your partner can plan intimate activities for the two of you, some of which don’t have to cost a penny!
Be Flexible
It is the way of the world; you may plan a wedding for August and it will still rain on the day. The good news is that with fewer guests, a smaller venue, and a restaurant to go to afterward, rain on your wedding day doesn’t have to be the end of the world. So, try to stay flexible and don’t get stressed if every detail isn’t perfect. This is your big day with your partner and a few close friends; chances are, you won’t need to impress anyone with polished silverware or a chocolate fountain!
Refresh Date: August 21, 2025
